Despite being the quarterback of a major market football team and dating a reality TV star, Jay Cutler has always tried to keep his life as quiet as possible. Take, for instance, Kristin Cavallari’s pregnancy, which the couple tried to keep quiet as long as they could before she started showing, and the gender of their unborn child, which was a secret until the other day. Chicago Bears receiver Earl Bennett told a local radio show that Cutler and Cavallari are indeed having a bouncing baby bro boy.

So maybe that’s why he was so upset yesterday when the paparazzi were peeping in on his dog walk with his eventual bride. But I know Cutler a little and he’s really not the bad guy that everyone makes him out to be. He also has quite the sense of humor, and we know that he couldn’t be any happier about having a son to raise and lead by example.

In fact, my good buddy J-Cutty actually told me that he recorded a video for his son to watch one day that will teach him all of the important lessons that the 29-year old has picked up along the way. He let me watch the video, too, and I wrote down some of his most important pointers with the hopes that they can inspire all of us.

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