
Somehow works better on her
Time again for weekly sexbag exhortations to the weak, wearied and wasted. In this installment, a man attempts to navigate his wife’s Byzantine cheating allowances, another fellow is hindered by hook ups, and still another contemplates a serious relationship with an exotic dancer, all the while threesomes upend anal for our reader request fixation de jure. We Americans are so staid. Here we are worked up by threesomes and the Japanese are having nipple tug of war (NSFW) at the beach.
Sirs,
Football first. What round would you draft the Vikings DST in fantasy. I figure with the addition of Percy Harvin and with the number of turnovers, sacks and defensive touchdowns they already receive, would you go as high as the 2nd round?
The Vikes D is one of the better ones for fantasy, but if you draft any team defense in the second round you deserve to be spanked by a board with a nail in it.
Sex: Took my nephew to Vegas a couple of weeks ago. He just came back from two tours and thirty months in Iraq. He deserved it. So on a weekday afternoon we leave the casino, drunk, around a little after noon. We walked north on the Strip and came to a gentleman’s club. We go inside. There is only myself and my nephew and about seven of the working girls. We get attacked the second we walk in. My nephew heads to the VIP room and I retire to a “private area.” I have been in a lot of these establishments. My first trip to the strip clubs was in 1980. Seriously.
The lady I met was around 40 or so and in fantastic shape. Blonde and firm. I get several dances and it was during the second dance while I was checking the firmament of her boobage that I noticed an anomaly. Her left breast was firm and most assuredly an implant but her right breast was, well… I think she had a mastectomy. There were underpinnings and metal work and serious superstructure adjustments along with a large fake breast over the whole works. I was very shaken. It was a strange moment.
We talked afterward. Business was slow and we really talked. Before you get skeptical, I have been in many strip clubs and I am well acquainted with the client/dancer banter. This girl was actually bright, funny and listened. I found myself being smitten. We exchanged numbers.
I kind of want to go back to visit. I live in L.A so I’m not too far. I really admire her. She was very sincere.
Thoughts?
DREW: And old stripper with half a rack? What’s not to love?
UFFORD: Hey, he’s no spring chicken himself. I say give her a call and see how it goes. It sounds like a really good but depressing movie script.

I should know! I was in it!
Dear persons of specious counsel,
The football question (this shit does come first): We’re on our way into year #4 of the Reggie Bush Experiment (and by “we,” I mean Saints nation as a whole), and while most Saints fans and all Reggie stans treat his rushing production with kid gloves, pretty much everyone else with so much as a casual interest in football is still waiting on 2005 Reggie Bush (or at least the 2004 version) to show up and do something in the rushing game on a consistent basis. Is this the year where the light comes on and doesn’t flicker, or would the team be well-served to let Pierre Thomas (who actually averages more yards per rush AND reception) get the lion’s share of the plays from scrimmage?
Could this be the year Reggie Bush finally cracks a whooping 160 carries in a season? I know it’s one of the great season dramas I’m anticipating. Your instincts serve you well. Thomas is a much better option as an everydown back.
The sex question: There’s a girl I’m semi-sorta-kinda-but-not-really seeing. Not the hottest I’ve ever had, but she’ll certainly do (I can definitely take her out in public without shame) and she’s wild in the bed. During sex one night, she suggested I wear a sundress the next time we get it on, because she’s always had this fantasy of pulling up a skirt and riding. Says no other guy has obliged her on it and that it’d go “a long way” in how we proceed. I’m not sure just how far I wanna go with her, not because of this fantasy but because of what would be the resulting after-shock if she enjoys it TOO much. I’m 25 and nowhere near ready to settle down. In the words of Meatwad, “Do what now?”
Blackenedgold
I prefer the words of Meatwad (and THE BEN), “PEW PEW PEW PEW”
I think in terms of wild, possibly emasculating shit a girl might ask you to do in the bedroom, wearing a sundress leans toward the conservative side. My ruling is that it’s slightly odd, but acceptable. It’s not like she’s asking to peg you. Do it, but with the stipulation that that’s the extent of the crossdressing you’re willing to do. And make sure you get a promise from her that she must agree to some act you want to do.
/winks at sizable anal-loving contingent in KSK readership
Dear funny football blog,
Sex first. I’m a 21 year old college kid and I’ve had what I consider a decent sex life. I’ve had sex with four girls in the past. The thing is, they were all my girlfriend or at least a girl I had been hooking up with for a while. I seem to be physically unable to have a one night stand. The opportunity has risen on more than one occasion, but for some reason I can’t seem to get turned on enough at the moment to do the deed. This might have something to do with the fact that I’m usually drunk as hell at this point, but I think it might be some sort of mental block. I’ve had no problem fucking girlfriends or hookups in the past, but this just never works for me. This shits embarrassing especially if it’s a girl I think is cool. My question is, what the fuck is wrong with me? Am I gay and haven’t realized it? Is this a common problem? Should I just tell these girls from now on that I don’t do one night stands?
You might have answered your own question with the mention of being really drunk. Or you might be dealing with performance anxiety, because with the one night stand your sex game has to be tight and, unlike with girlfriends, you can’t fall back on whatever Dr. Mindbender techniques you used to convince her that you are a person worthy of continued socializing with. If you’ve fucked four times by 21 without ever having a one nighter, then you seem to be adjusted enough that getting a relationship isn’t a problem for you, but I’d recommend getting over whatever issues you have with one night stands (sorry, don’t have a magic bullet here to solve that). Relying solely on relationships for sex for a college guy is making too much work for yourself in something readily available.
Football: Do you think Hakeem Nicks was a good 1st round pickup for the Giants?
It make sense, though when one considers the expectations placed on his shoulders by the team, it could look disappointing to fans after this season. The Giants seem to presume that a rookie is going to replace Plaxico’s production and presence in the offense, because without those things, their offense is very pedestrian. Which is fucking stupid. Because, with very few exceptions, receivers suck as rookies. Take, uh, Plaxico, WHO SPIKED THE BALL BEFORE BEING TACKLED IN ONE GAME! GOD I WISH IT WAS I WHO FIRED THAT BULLET INTO YOUR LEG
Hello,
My Name is Istvan, and I live in the eastern of Europe. I am married to a American girl, and she has gotten me to love the American football. We are big fans of the packers of Green bay. I liked Brett Favre when he was there, but he left and played for new york I jumped up and yelled “Make fuck him!” Everyone laughed, It was a good day. I also like the Raiders, since they are owned by one of my countrymen. Are these teams good?
I cannot often tell when she is complete. She makes very little sound and does not squirt, so I feel like I am not doing my job as her man. Is there a good way to tell when a woman is having the orgasm?
I need your helping.
-Istvan (The Man)
Very obviously a fake letter, but an amusing one nonetheless. Is best fake letter been received since letter that give photograph of hram.
Gentlemen,
Football first. Keeper league, I can keep two of the three, but only for the next two seasons: Dwayne Bowe, Terrell Owens and Brandon Marshall. With QB changes for all, How much does Bowe go up? How much do T.O. and Marshall drop?
Because it’s two years, you gotta go with Bowe and Marshall. Bowe should be very productive with Cassel and I don’t foresee Marshall slipping all that far, even with the Neckbeard. T.O. might have comparable numbers in ’09 to last year (though a dropoff is likely), but I have a hunch you’ll want no part of him in 2010, assuming he’s even in the league.
Sex: When my girlfriend goes on the rag, when is it acceptable to start up with the sex again? When it’s merely a trickle? The second day, provided we do it on a red towel? Or even earlier, which is oddly thrilling in that it looks like my penis killed something?
Sounds like it’s not a problem for you as is, and right after the period you’re less likely to knock her up.
Dear Masters of their Domain,
As it should be, football first. With Brady healthy looking to reclaim the championship, he’ll have to go through the defending champion (shudders) Steelers. If the Steelers somehow manage to repeat, can they be considered the team of the decade? I know 3 in 5 > 3 in 6, and the Patriots had 18-1, but does that 1 hurt them in terms in history? If they are not considered on equal footing to the Patriots, should we just consider them the Spurs of the NFL, and always competitive team that never manges to be deemed a “dynasty”?
I believe the Steelers had a nice little dynasty in the ’70s. Four titles in six years and all that. Ahem. Possiblythegreatestofthemodernera.
As for the question, Scout.com recently addressed this and I can’t argue with their conclusion: even if the Steelers repeat, team of the decade status still goes to the Pats. After all, New England has a 7.5 game edge in overall wins and there is the matter of them beating the Steelers twice in AFCC games and going to a fourth SB on top of the three titles. So it’s sort of like the late-’90s Broncos to the ’90s Cowboys.
/pukes
To Sex. I’m engaged to be married, but the wedding isn’t planed until after I graduate from college in a few years. Before I popped the question we had an open relationship where we could have fun with whoever we want, but by the end of the day we would always come back to each other. Now that things have become more serious, she gets completely freaked when I just hang out with other girls. She keeps telling me that I can do what i want with who i want, but its obvious that she’s gonna be hurt. I absolutely love her, and the sex is freaking amazing. It’s just these are the years of my life to mess around. Is it worth upsetting the fiance to have fun and then try to make it up to her, or should i just settle down now and begin the life of a married man at 19 years old?
-Nephew of Tommy from Quincy (not facking lying bout this)
WHO MEAN WOMEN BECOME MORE POSSESSIVE AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROGRESSES!? If you thought nothing was going to change when you asked to marry the girl you had an open relationship with, well, YOU’RE FACKIN RETAHDED!
Dear Mr. Miyagi’s of the Vaginal Arts,
Getting married in September, and having a bachelor Vegas weekend at the end of June. I’d been straight up badgering my fiance for many years about a threesome. She once promised one as a bday gift, and then took it away. I was never the same after that. Well, she finally admitted to me about 6 months ago that the thought of other women does not agree with her, and that it will never happen. Dreams crushed. Hopes down the drain. Then, she tells me that I have a one weekend pass in Vegas FOR THREESOMES ONLY. Her incredible rule is that I am allowed two at the same time, but 1 on 1 is forbidden. Some caveats include that I can’t tell her if it happens, and definitely can’t fork over details, blah blah blah. Problem is, I’m not the worlds most attractive man, and frankly, I’ve seen cathouse, I don’t have that kind of money to spend on an overweight freakshow with severe daddy issues (also im a compulsive gambler and I might try to double my money before having a foursome). I’m thinking I might be better off just approaching two girls and explaining the situation after 10-15 shots of liquid courage. What’s my best approach? What are the odds it actually happens?
You’re an ugly dude with limited funds, placing your opening odds at FUCKNO: 1. Your best chance is not letting your friends know of this threesome proviso your wife has dropped in and go about securing an individual lay. But then you’ll be betraying your wife’s trust, y’know, like she did when she welched on her threesome promise.
As for football, my honeymoon is supposed to start on opening weekend for the NFL. I was so concerned about avoiding it for the wedding, I forgot about the HM. Yes, this was severe lapse in judgment on my part. Is there anyway to combine copious “this is the best its ever going to be” sex, while STILL making sure I get first weekly injection of pigskin?
-D-
You’re pretty much boned, unless you want to sneak out Homer Simpson-style to catch General Sherman. Even the most rockribbed of obsessive football fans would have a hard time blowing off the honeymoon for the NFL (albeit Week 1 after a long dreadful offseason is like a honeymoon unto itself). Also, you haven’t converted the fiancee into at least someone with a passing interest in the game? Weak. Just DVR a bunch of games and watch them when you can. If you get tipped off to a couple of scores, that sucks, but there’s still a full season ahead to enjoy.
Strap in (or strap on, whichever), this is a long one. I really screwed the pooch on this one and I need the advice of the KSK gods to help me out…
Six years ago I got married (no this wasn’t the problem, wait for it) to a raging nymphomanic. I’m talking nearly six years of six times a week, more than once a day on weekends. No holes barred, and loves a good face painting as well as swallowing. Not only that, but she’s also a raging bi-sexual and loves to pick up women and bring them home for me. I’m talking threesomes every month or so, and even a couple of orgies.
You haven’t even gotten to your question and my answer is already kill yourself.
She loves porn, dirty talk, being tied up, spanked hard, in short, the perfect wife right? So then I went and slipped one past the goalie 18 months ago (we were actually trying). But, it actually worked out alright. We went on having wild monkey sex (but no additional partners) for 8 months, and I got put in the penalty box for about 3 months (last month of the pregnancy and first two months or so after), then her sex drive kicked back in and we were off to the races again right? Nope, I had to go and knock her up again about six months after the first one was born. But again, things were great right up to about three weeks before my son was born, and I knew what to expect right? Two or so months of self-flagellation, then it was time to get it on again, right? WRONG. It’s been almost four months, and nothing… nada, zip. Not even a pity handjob. She claims she just has no interest whatsoever.
I’m not a complete ass (I hope), I know that having two kids 15 months apart is draining. Heck, I’m tired all the time too, but wouldn’t mind a five minute fun ride before collapsing. I’ve tried all the things that used to start her engine and nothing. Is there any hope for the bi-nympho-slut coming back to me, or am I in the married for life/sexless for life prison?
I’d like to think it’s karmic payback for your years of wild-nympho-threesome-with-trapeze-artists-sex, or it could be that she needs a little more time. Give it another month or two then threaten to sell the kids into slavery if the sexy time doesn’t return.
Football: If Brett Favre takes a dump in the back 40, does Peter King know how many kernels of corn are in it?
Yes, because he eats them.
And now I defer the floor to Ufford, who was so exercised by the following letter, he called dibs on destroying it.
BDD,
UFFORD: Sorry, Drew’s making a bread sandwich. You get one of the rest of us.
Sex: Here’s a brief recap. So on Friday night, my friend texted me at 4 PMish saying he needed a place to stay for the night (without any prior indication). I accepted, and I also had to go out of my way to travel to where he was getting dropped off. I met up with him and we decided to go to some bars near where he got dropped off. Over the course of the night, I got pretty frisky with some girl and ended up going back to her place. This particular action meant my buddy could not stay at my place, but I thought that since his friend was also with us, he could stay at his place.
UFFORD: Why couldn’t he stay at your place? Is he incapable of receiving your keys from you and finding your apartment on his own? Does your building require a retinal scan of a resident for entry?
Here’s where things get a little dicey. My friend was forced to take a $150 cab back to his parent’s house at 5 AM so that he could have somewhere to sleep (his friend claimed to have no room, so he couldn’t stay there).
UFFORD: Maybe that’s why he asked you for a place to stay, jackass.
Furthermore, I did not get further than 2nd base with this girl. Do I owe my friend any sort of recompense?
UFFORD: You can start with an apology, Mr. Stand-Up Double.
Let me give some context.
UFFORD: Don’t bother.
Two years ago, my other buddy and I drove down to DC for July 4th to hang out and stay with this guy…he got too drunk and ended up in the hospital and we had to drive home the night of the 4th (quite drunk I must add) because he was such an idiot.
UFFORD: Oh man, YOU TOTALLY GOT HIM BACK! (You should have taken a cab back from the hospital. Probably would have been less than $150.)
And lastly…if I eventually go all the way with this girl, does that make things okay? Please impart your pseudo-knowledge upon me.
UFFORD: Maybe if you marry this girl, it will make this a good story. Until then, I’d focus on being a less shitty friend.
Football: I sincerely doubt you’re privy to any more football knowledge than I am and I think your opinion is just as valid as mine, so I don’t have any questions for you. That said…watch out for the K-BRITT and Cocktail Collins combo! (Mulatto Hypnotic?)
Graciously,
Non-Emo Titans Fan / Peter King hater

KSK,
Football:
I know the draft is a year away, but, as it is May and I don’t want to think about where Michael Vick will end up or when Brett Favre will sign with the Vikings, a draft question is the only football-related question I have.
Since the Seahawks will most likely end up with a top ten pick delivered by Denver’s (hopefully) Lion-esque play, what are the prospects of picking up a quarterback? I know they have other needs to fulfill, but it seems like a perfect, low-risk opportunity to pick up a franchise guy.
You’ll probably need the top pick to get Sam Bradford and Denver won’t be that bad this year, though never doubt the team imploding prowess of McDaniels. Jevan Snead should be around until the mid-to-late first.
Sex:
My friend was recently diagnosed with a mild case of Bell’s Palsy. It has stricken the lower half of his face and is quite visible; however, he’s noticed that it is starting to turn to normal. In addition, the quarter is about to finish and time is of the essence. How can he best use his Bell’s Palsy to get laid? Better yet, how can I best use his Bell’s Palsy to get laid?
Really, I just care about how I can use it. He’s going to be fine.
Regards,
A fan of mild and temporary facial paralysis of friends
DREW: Ape will murder you now
Drew is referencing the fact that I got Bell’s Palsy on the left side of my face when I was 13. I had to get a spinal tap because the doctors thought I had Lyme Disease (I didn’t) and then I had to get electroshock therapy on my face for four months before it got better. The key part of your question is “he’s going to be fine”. When using a condition to get laid, it usually has to be something very serious or even terminal (albeit not contractible through sex, of course), not a facial deformity that causes little discomfort other than embarrassment in social situations (it happened to me the year after Batman Forever came out, so Two Face jokes were frequent). So find a buddy with cancer. Or get it yourself. CANCER! OF THE HEAD!

Neither sexy nor sympathetic
Scholars of Semenology,
I love football but since I’m not a total loser, sex always comes first.
My wife and I have been together for 11 years, married for eight. Even after these years together I still think she’s a hot piece of ass and I love to give her the pork sword whenever the opportunity presents itself.
However, with three kids and both of us working like dogs, those sexy time opps are few and far between. This results in having sex at most twice a week. Being the horn dog that I am, twice a week isn’t nearly enough so I jerk off frequently – in the shower, in the bathroom while pretending to take a dump, late night in the basement to a scene from GTA – whenever the mood strikes. This keeps me sane and most sex related arguments to a minimum.
Here’s the rub – with the concern of not being caught high on my list of priorities coupled with my haste to impregnate an old sock, the twice a week I get to insert my member into a beautiful woman doesn’t last as long as it used to. I long (and I’m sure she does too) for the day when I could hollow her out like a Halloween pumpkin.
Which brings me coming to you guys for advice. Since being a successful blogger probably translates into beating off a lot, is jerking off quickly eroding my stamina in the sack? If so, how do I go about finding the mojo and giving my wife the railing she deserves? Don’t suggest a condom – while that would probably help, I’m snipped so she would probably think I’m banging my secretary.
Yes, waterboarding your dick can affect your bedroom stamina. I realize with three kids and a wife, your window of free time for menage-a-moi is probably very limited, but you need to try to find a way to do it without ravaging your dick in six seconds flat.
Football – rank the Eagles personnel in terms of fantasy relevance for the 2009/10 season.
Peace and love,
Short Fuse
Rank how all their key contributors fit in the hierarchy of their respective positions in fantasy? Fuck you, Iggles fan, that’s a lot of goddamn work for something I don’t see having application to actual fantasy play, unless you’re trying to be annoying and get as many homer draft picks as possible.


Forget the sundress, wear a kilt! What woman wouldn’t want to ride the Piper’s Pipe!
Been with my wife for 12 years (married for 7), 2 kids with the second one just off the tit. An attempt at twice a week is an agreement we came to (Mid-week & weekend). I find that it keeps the house harmonious (I’m not always pouting like a little bitch), and the regular activity tends to reminder her that sex is fun and worth the effort.
Also, put in the work before you put in your cock. Use an some kind of device/tongue to get her off before you fuck her and she won’t care how long you last.
Uh, what? When did I start working the pole? Are you confusing me with Carrie, who is also not a stripper?
Bitch, please, I GIVE advice, I don’t take it.
Yeah, sorry. Clare, Carrie… Couldn’t one of you come up with an appropriately clever screenname like Futuremrsrickankiel? May I suggest, “George?”
Emo Titan’s Fan –
While it is incredibly trite, there is a reason the phrase “Bros before Hos” is in common parlance. There is wisdom in that colloquialism. Said less rudely, ALWAYS be looking out for your friends!!!
This one was easy. How on earth do you screw over a friend for the chance at maybe, possibly, breaking off a piece? As someone else noted, get her number and try again later – she ain’t going anywhere – and take care of your boy.
Horrible Horrible “friend”.
Also, speaking of strippers, I find it hilarious that Clare actually sought and followed the advice of the jackasses who write and read this blog.
Uh, what? When did I start working the pole? Are you confusing me with Carrie, who is also not a stripper?
Bitch, please, I GIVE advice, I don’t take it.
Strap in (or strap on, whichever), this is a long one. I really screwed the pooch on this one and I need the advice of the KSK gods to help me out…
Die.
Not kidding, person who sent in this post, die and may your penis be eaten by worms when you’re in the ground.
Been married seven years this coming August, my daughter will be four in July and my son turned two this month. There are dry spells and wet spells in our sex life, but it all averages out to probably two-three times a week.
We lost three pregnancies before my daughter was born and as a result my wife was placed on bedrest in her third trimester, so there was a really long period of time (I’m talking like 6-9 months) where we didn’t have sex at all, not once. She’d occasionally take care of me by alternative means, but it was pretty much a monastery at our house. So that knocks my average down quite a bit. Lately, since she’s been feeling better about herself because she’s losing weight and is closer to her pre-marriage/pre-kids figure, we’ve had a very active past six months to past year. We don’t do it every day, but last week we had a couple two-a-days.
All in all, my wife is awesome. Nyah. :)
yeah right?: I’m not an expert in Stripperotics or anything but I would assume if she gives you her home phone (You verified it was her number, right? Not her pimps or agents or something?) that she’s interested in you more than just working you to buy some time in the Champagne Room. So the only question is should you go for it. I’m sure there are exceptions to every rule but generally strippers are very messed up people. If you were just out for fun I’d see no harm but the smitteness has me concerned. Go for it but try to cool the emotions until you get to know her better because I can almost guarantee there are some warts on that frog.
Also, speaking of strippers, I find it hilarious that Clare actually sought and followed the advice of the jackasses who write and read this blog. I may only have a lowly bachelors in psychology but I’m pretty sure a sweet impressionable young woman following the advice of sexist adult men on a lowest common denominator football blog is a sure recipe for future self esteem issues and/or time spent working the pole.
/tried not to sound like Buzz Bissinger there
//actually loves this site. Intends to write a thesis paper on it.
@ yeah right?
It sounds like you and the dancer talked together fluently in a hard-learned common language and connected- so if she’s smart, has character and that worldly-hotness (like Marisa Tomei) give this thing a shot. What the hell? No matter what happens, it’ll be more stable and rewarding being a Vikings fan.
Skol Vikings!
OK, guys. Here we go.
This may come as kind of a shock. Yeah, right? I’m the old stripper guy. Thanks for the “no spring chicken” comment, Ufford.
Fucker.
Yep, this is a true story. Thanks for the advice, Clare, Rocco et al. Have I told you lately?
I’m not really sure about my question but I do know my Dad married a stripper. It lasted 14 days. I was already 20 years old and my dad was trying to prove how hip and groovy and “with it” as you cool kids say, since he left my mom. He divorced my mom less than a month before this.
I know the strippers code. I drove a taxi for 6 years back in my lean days and you learn something about people. You learn about character. You learn to how read a persons demeanor or intent from a distance. Your life pretty much depends on it.
I’m 47 years old.
I’m a grown ass man.
I know a good person.
/Starring Marisa Tomei as the stripper with a heart of gold
Thanks for making me laugh, Drew
@ Jebus: really good, I *almost* came.
@ mrhotpance: it’s kind of hard to stalk someone when they’re on a ship for 6 months, i definitely am not obsessing over it, but the way things went leading up to, during, and after, he digs me, so when he comes back from the ship (in a week) I’m letting him decide a bit where things are going to go.
“And, frankly, while I’m pro-threesome in a non-relationship context, I would RIP A BITCH’S FACE OFF if I saw her touching my boyfriend’s cock.”
This is the correct answer. I would rearrange a bitch’s face if I saw her go near my boyfriend’s funzone. I mean, there’s definitely nothing wrong with a non-relationship threesome but in context of bringing a stranger into a previously existing relationship? FUCK. THAT. Didn’t anyone see the Entourage episode?
@ Shitty friend: The solution to this is really simple. GIVE YOUR FRIEND HIS $150. And then apologize for breaking a promise and costing him money.
Hey fuck face, you’re married with three kids. You have to be ready like a minuteman waiting for Paul Revere to come riding through town. Suck it up and take your 2 times a week and look at anything else as a fucking gift.
Wearing a sun dress does not make you gay or a crossdresser or any other terrible, terrible thing. Call it a moo-moo and wear it while she blows you. It will, one day, be like Pavlov’s Dog. You put the moo-moo on, she goes down. It is a perfect idea.
And no, the actual palsy is not contagious, but the underlying disease that caused it could be (ex. AIDS or the zoster).
And just so you know, Herpes Zoster = Chickenpox / Shingles. Its not the STD herpes (Herpes simplex). Meaning you probably already had the zoster virus when you were a kid and it’s latent in your body.
@Clare -
Bell’s Palsy is due to damage done to the Facial Nerve, which controls the muscles of your face and eyelids. You lose control of the muscles on that one side only. I guess it could happen due to zoster but that’s pretty rare. Its usually a complication due to AIDS, Lyme disease, Sarcoidosis, Diabetes, Cancer, or Trauma, or Stroke. It could happen with no explicable reason, but that’s kinda rare. Most people recover but it can be permanent.
/goes back to studying for Board exams.
@Stripper guy: Roll the dice and go for it. Likely that she’s like most strippers and has some daddy issues, but that doesn’t rule out she’s a decent girl. My friend danced and put herself through nursing school. She’s a fairly normal girl.
@1 Night Stand: Fuck it. Don’t bother. If you’re not into it, cool. It’ll pay off to not be that guy. Find a girl worth spending time with.
@Tommy’s nephew: You’re a jackass. Pick one or the other bro. Think about what you want in a girl who you could spend the rest of your life wife. If she’s got it, cool. Be faithful to her and appreciate what you have instead of sweating what you might miss.
@-D-: I have the number for a good divorce attorney. You’re gonna need it. And in general guys, it’s one fucking week of football. If the plan is it’ll be the only honeymoon you ever go on, make it memorable. If she isn’t the type who will enjoy sitting around watching the games on the honeymoon, suck it up.
@Nympho wife: I feel your pain man. I thought I was in for some continued serious sexy time with the slut I married. It continued at first, but tapered off within three years. Not even any kids. I think it’s just an unexplained phenomenon. Either that or I married a cheating coke whore. Hopefully you’ll have better luck getting back to sexy time.
@Titans Fan: Yeah, get fucked. Worst. Friend. Ever. Dude, hand the keys over. Even if you had a naked chick on your lap, it’s total bullshit to fuck over a friend like that. You have some serious bad karma coming back at you pal.
Well, everybody’s gone for the day so no one will read this, but here goes:
Uncle Awesome: You’re an awesome uncle for taking your nephew to Las Vegas. I have a hard time believing “but this one’s different” about your new stripper friend, though.
Blackenedgold: The Saints’ fanbase is large enough to call it a “nation”? Huh. Go with the kilt. Kilts are totally butch, plus I understand that they’re meant to be worn without anything underneath. And if she’s as wild as you say she is, it shouldn’t be a problem exchanging some backdoor action for wearing a kilt for her.
One night stand kid: Despite what these Neanderthals tell you, there’s no shame in being someone who needs an emotional connection to the girl he’s fucking. But if you really, really want to be good at having one night stands, don’t drink so much before you get her home. No girl wants to go home with with a guy who has whiskey dick. Trust me, she’ll remember it. And if you MUST drink a fifth of vodka in order to close the deal, make sure you’re REALLY good at going down. She’ll remember that too.
Period sex guy: Blood doesn’t make good lube, so keep some high-quality slippery stuff nearby.
Nephew of Tommy from Quincy: Oh my God, are you ever stupid.
-D-: I agree that it’s pretty shitty of your fiancee to dangle the carrot of a threesome and then yank it away. But I also have to say that a woman will not happily do anything (laundry, bikini waxes, anal, cooking, threesomes) about which she is constantly being berated.
Non-Emo Titans Fan: Damn, you are a shitty friend. You couldn’t give him your house keys? Furthermore, everybody is entitled to an occasional night where he/she overdoes it in a big way (for me, it was three weeks ago at my high school reunion). Anybody who doesn’t understand this or begrudges his friend this deserves never to get past second base again.
Bell’s Palsy: How do you get Bell’s Palsy? Is it contagious? (Wikipedia says it’s related to herpes zoster, so yes.) And why are you so concerned about your buddy getting laid? Is he shipping out to Fallujah next week?
Short fuse: Stop jerking off so often, and change it up while you’re doing it. Pull out and go down on her for a while, give her a Russian, have her give you a hand job. You have to confuse your dick.
@Short Fuse: Having sent in a similar question on fear of not being able to last long I found what helps is training yourself to last longer ie by taking a while well you watch porn/jerk it. Though I have only fooled around once since. It certainly helped that one time and I now have more control when I rub one out. And since she has probably noticed you can’t last as long why don’t you tell her you wanna try a condom and see if that helps.
@Spatula, I think the crux of the matter is that only an idiot gets engaged at 19 and then wants to keep sleeping around. In fact, you’d have to be a complete fucking retard to get engaged at 19 and expect your fiancee to let you sleep around.
@ non 1 night stand college kid:
Im the opposite. One night stands are great for me, I could give a fuck less how good I am in the sack as long as I get my nut, gnome sane? With chicks Im dating, I kinda obsess over how I’ll be in bed especially the first time. Part of me thinks that I objectify women and kind of separate sex from any feelings.
Here goes nothing: @Nephew of Tommy, being engaged means that you’ve made a commitment to be monogamous (whatever open relationship you used to have). If you can’t be faithful now, you never will be. And saying you’re 19, and in college, and engaged for three years is not an excuse. My wife and I went to separate universities (Clarion and Penn State) so we were engaged for three weeks shy of three years. We remained true to each other because that’s what people who are in love actually do (feel free to make any sophomoric jokes you want, but this is still the truth). We’ll celebrate our 26th anniversary this year. I know this post is supposed to be about sex and not fidelity, but I couldn’t take the “only an idiot gets engaged at 19″ arguments – it’s rather personal. In actuality, only an idiot who doesn’t love the other person gets engaged at 19.
/Um, dick joke?
Not a lofty mailbag. And what young man does not ignore the rag time, just plow on through it! And engaged at 19? Hope they teach spellin at that thar colege you attind.
@ Carrie – any intentions on stalking this guy and obsessing over “your first” or was this strictly a means to an end?
PS – congrats?
@ Carrie- so, how was he?
“Sorry, correction: all women are just 3 drinks away from crazy-hot, girl-on-girl action. And all lesbians look like Victoria’s Secret models. Rosie O’Donnell being a lesbian? A vicious rumor spread by the radical, sex-hating feminists.”
I FUCKING KNEW IT!!!
YAY!!!
Sorry, correction: all women are just 3 drinks away from crazy-hot, girl-on-girl action. And all lesbians look like Victoria’s Secret models.
Thank you! :)
Okay, here we go.
Old ass strippers guy -
You were talking to the B squad at a strip joint. Proceed at your own risk.
Engaged at 19 -
Call it off. Now. You’re going to spend the next three years surrounded by the hottest and easiest ass you’ll ever get, and right after that it’ll dry up so fast you’ll think it vaporized. Unless this chick is hot as fuck, totally loaded, and is actually someone you can spend the rest of your life with, you’ll never make it. I know this because every guy that I knew that was engaged or engaged to be engaged (which is total horseshit) before they left school either cheated on their fiance or had her cheat on him.
Dress guy -
Do it, but under these conditions: she buys it, you never do it again, and you get anal/threesome/something equivalent.
Mr. Miyagi -
In the words of Admiral Ackbar, IT’S A TRAP. Don’t do it. And you shouldn’t have let her reneg on the threesome promise. That shit’s fuckin’ gold. I absolutely would have held her to that.
Titans fan -
You suck. Die in a fire. Unless you’re guaranteed that you’re going to get some ass, you don’t leave a buddy strandedm, ESPECIALLY if he’s from out of town. That shit just ain’t cool.
RE Needs More Cheerleaders Says:
“Oh Slash, why do you have to go and bring LIES into the mailbag again?!”
Sorry, correction: all women are just 3 drinks away from crazy-hot, girl-on-girl action. And all lesbians look like Victoria’s Secret models. Rosie O’Donnell being a lesbian? A vicious rumor spread by the radical, sex-hating feminists.
@ 3-some: I don’t know what’s more pathetic – you begging for a threeway or being willing to pay for one.
If you really love this girl and want your marriage to have a chance, you will forget this silly fantasy and go to Vegas to drink heavily, hit a few strip joints and do copious amounts of blow.
@ 19 and Engaged: if you are already engaged and are still wanting to continue banging other girls, that may be a huge sign that you are making a bad decision. At your age, you should be checking out more pussy than a veterinarian, not wondering if your cheating ways will hurt your fiancee.
@ sundress – as long as there are no cameras to document your RuPaul ways and the sex is good and she’s willing to reciprocate, I’d ask her if she has a color preference and get to work
@ titan fan: I hope you get your ass beat in a bar fight and that your friend stands back and watches you bleed out on the floor of the establishment. Cocksucker.
I thought that Short Fuse was stealing my life, except I only have 2 kids and 4x per month (a weekly double usually makes up for the week of Alabama Crimson Tide).
My advice is to invest in some, um, machinery. She gets her 22 minutes first, and by the time your done and clean up, the next show will start on TV.
/it sucks to get old.
And oh, yeah, +1 to Carrie for finally dumping the frat boy losers and getting some for herself.
Hopefully, she didn’t get a case of the clap to go along with it.
We’re not naturally bisexual. “Girls Gone Wild” is not a documentary.
Oh Slash, why do you have to go and bring LIES into the mailbag again?!
RE LaFavre’s Next Retirement Says: “@ Slash – Just a slight clarification – that’s used panties……… used schoolgirl panties………for sale………in a vending machine. How can you resist?”
Um… pretty easily, actually. Thanks for the heads up, anyway. (shudder)
I just want to say that I’m no longer a virgin
Woohoo! Go Carrie! Congrats girl :)
/cries over shattered dreams.
RE Gino Tourettsa Says:
“Even if you follow your end of the agreement to the letter, she’ll find some way to use it against you later. It’s one of the powers females got in the unwritten Man-Woman Collective Bargaining Agreement.”
See, this is one of the things I dislike about this “threesome” thing, and I’d think it’s something men wouldn’t want to encourage either (given their constant bitching about how women never say what they mean or mean what they say), this idea that women should do them a “favor” by consenting to shit they don’t really want to do in order to have some sort of creepy sexual leverage, or “points” in some odd game of Dysfunctional Relationship Bingo. What a lovely idea that can’t go wrong in any way: “I’ll tell my fiance that he’s free to fuck another woman for one crazy weekend, then stash it away in my Sex Grievance account so that the first time he’s an asshole to me, I get to fuck an ex-boyfriend with none of that pesky guilt.” But gay people can’t marry each other because it’s a violation of the sanctity of marriage. Makes perfect sense.
How about just say, “No, I don’t wanna fuck a woman, and I don’t want to watch you fuck another woman and if you have a problem with that, you know where the door is”? I guess being up-front about what you want and don’t want is too simple for some people.
@ Slash – Just a slight clarification – that’s used panties……… used schoolgirl panties………for sale………in a vending machine. How can you resist?
Heres a hint: vending machines.
@ That’samare @ Ape
Fucking awesome
After 2 kids it does feel like you’re banging a pumpkin or vegetable soup. Shoulda gone c-section.
RE FearTheBuzzsaw Says: “Cmon, Slash. Japanese? Kinky? Panties? WTF are you waiting for? Click it. Click it. Click it. Click it.”
No fucking way. Not even tempted. The word “panties” probably doesn’t have the same effect on me as it seems to have on you.
19 years old… I just… I don’t even… why?
And Emo-Titans whatever, if you’re using your buddy getting too drunk one night TWO YEARS AGO to justify the prescription-strength cockholery you unleashed on him, get fucked. It’s not like he was aware he was inconveniencing you and decided to do it anyway, he got too fucked up and ended up in the hospital. I hope all the hospital bills you didn’t have to pay didn’t cramp your style. You knew he was fucked and you turned your back on him. That’s the easiest call in the book and you fucked it up. Get her number, try again next weekend. Christ.
Cmon, Slash.
Japanese? Kinky? Panties? WTF are you waiting for?
Click it. Click it. Click it. Click it.
@ Carrie
Congrats!
D
Your fianceé giving you a one-time, non-transferable, threesome-only pass sounds like either a test, a trap or compensation for something she feels guilty about. Brother, beware.
Even if you follow your end of the agreement to the letter, she’ll find some way to use it against you later. It’s one of the powers females got in the unwritten Man-Woman Collective Bargaining Agreement.
RE Nestminder Says:
“Speaking of the Japanese, came across this today: http://www.snopes.com/risque/kinky/panties.asp”
I don’t even want to read what’s on that link, even if it is just Snopes. Not now, not ever.
@Carrie: Good on you girl. I was way too young my first time and it was a total anti-climax. It all got better from there though! ;)
Good mailbag. Lofty mailbag. Enjoyed the read.
ever not every grrr
Oh LORD HAVE MERCY, Slash, I COULD NOT AGREE MORE at the above statement about men pestering their girlfriends for threesomes — any shit in bed, really, should not come about as the result of pestering, if mutual enjoyment is your goal AS IT FUCKING SHOULD BE, but threesomes in particular. To promise and rescind is always an unfair thing, but dear god. I’d never, every ask my boyfriend, “Sweetie, for my birthday, would you mind if I brought another cock along to play with us?” And, frankly, while I’m pro-threesome in a non-relationship context, I would RIP A BITCH’S FACE OFF if I saw her touching my boyfriend’s cock.
Needs more fake letters.
@ Shortfuse: You’re awfully touchy for someone allegedly getting laid twice a week and who still beats off.
Dude who’s fiance is just now allowing him to have a three-way for one weekend only: yeah, your fiance just cheated on you.
@ non one-night stand college kid: Don’t worry about it. It’s not for everyone. Plus, there’s some fucking psycho’s out there. Like one’s willing to have a one night stand with you, only to find you 2 days later saying they’re pregnant with your kid. And the crazy thing is that you’re getting off easy with that. Do you know how many broads will sleep with a guy knowing they have an STI/STD? You’re better off finding girls in your situation and dating them for a month and a half before moving on.
@ Bachelor with a free pass: The weekend you are in vegas with a free pass, is the weekend 80% of the men in your state will be ploughing your fiancee. Her justification will be that she was getting even with you, therefore it’s OK as you too had a free pass. Is the juice worth the squeeze?
@Blackengold: The night you put on a dress, you better make damn sure that whatever you want to do to her, has already been done, or about too that night. I’d imagine she won’t be around much longer if you go through with it.
@D: Don’t even bother trying to watch week 1. Enjoy the time with your wife. Plus, if she knows that you are missing the first week of the season, and knows how you love football, you could probably get away with doing more stuff to her.
@ Ape: When you had your spinal tap, would you say the pain levels was at an 11?
@ Slash
Speaking of the Japanese, came across this today: http://www.snopes.com/risque/kinky/panties.asp
What. the. fuck.
I’m thinking the milf-porn market over there is struggling, to say the least.
@ -D- @ Dieter
I just reread your letter and saw that the pass is strictly for the weekend in Vegas. That sucks. Sorry, dude. I think you might have the best plan. Just gamble, drink, and see what happens. You might get lucky. If you do well at the tables try haggling with the whores working the floor.
But you would have had a better time with my plan. Just sayin’.
RE “Getting married in September, and having a bachelor Vegas weekend at the end of June. I’d been straight up badgering my fiance for many years about a threesome. She once promised one as a bday gift, and then took it away.”
She’s not responding well to you badgering her about a threesome? Color me surprised. I know nothing would make me hotter than having to listen to my somewhat-unattractive fiance begging me to bring another pussy into my bedroom (I assume you’re talking about another female). Christ… Why don’t you surprise her with an attractive male for a threesome and see what her reaction is to that?
Yes, she was wrong to pretend to go along with it, then rescind the offer. That doesn’t really mitigate the pathetic whining about a threesome, as if this is some inalienable right that the founders just forgot to add to the Constitution. I know this is really hard to believe for people who watch way too much porn, but not all women (in fact, I’ll go out on a limb and say most women) don’t want to fuck other women. We’re not naturally bisexual. “Girls Gone Wild” is not a documentary.
I have nothing to contribute to the comments. I just want to say that I’m no longer a virgin. The navy boy (the one I asked my question about 2 weeks ago) fucked this past weekend.
Why on earth would you ever get engaged at 19?! That’s the most moronic shit I’ve ever read.
Ape: you are correct, I forgot to fix that because I had visions of sniping wittle steewers fans bouncing awound my head.
@ -D-
I’m not clear exactly what your Vegas budget is, but don’t go with the Cathouse and its overpriced high-mileage slags. In fact, don’t do it in Vegas. Arrange an incall through a GFE agency or independent provider in your hometown or another convenient city. It should cost you $500-$600, maybe less.
I let a frequent hook-up in college dress me up in a little black dress and makeup once – while shitfaced, of course.
It wasn’t so bad — and I ended up nailing her roommate (at a later date) that thought I looked hot while “dragged”.
/um… I mean a friend of mine told me that story
If this group of Steelers win 3 in 5, they will have matched the 90s Cowboys,
Didn’t the ’90s Cowboys win 3 in 4?
3some in Vegas: Look online for swingers’ clubs in Vegas, and see which ones of them allow single men to attend. This is your best chance of getting a threesome in Vegas without paying for two hookers (and the hookers in Vegas are unusually expensive).
/Perhaps I’ve said too much…..
Sundress guy: If she wants to lift a skirt, why didn’t you suggest a kilt? Seems kinda obvious to me.
Also, WTF is wrong with women?
I did enjoy the fake eastern European letter. Is good.
@ non-emo Titans fan: clearly you never learned the creed “Bros before hoes.” Even if you were going to actually have sex with said chick, you could have given your house keys to the guy and hailed a cab for him so he could crash at your place. Unless he was going to steal all of your shit before you got home the next morning, you sir should have your man card revoked.
@ Bell’s palsy friend: Why in the hell do you need to use your friend’s temporary ailment to get the poon? Dude is your game that weak? Seems like it is from here. How about you start again, learn how to talk to chicks and stop being a dick.
@ Blackendgold: If this group of Steelers win 3 in 5, they will have matched the 90s Cowboys, but would also mean they would have 7 rings, which would cause me to get lots of guns and go on a killing spree of all Steelers fans I could snipe from the local bell tower. So go ahead and hope for this to happen, but you better get a good bullet proof vest.
And BS to the guy who’s married and getting it twice a week. You sir are a liar.
/realized comments contained much vitriol
//vitriol tastes like sweet, sweet candy
Dammit, Texas Ranger.
Somebody get this man a Dos Equis – pronto – and let’s all pull up some chairs.
I heard that guy spent an evening with Drew just to have an awkward experience for the first time.
“My first trip to the strip clubs was in 1980″
Let me guess, you probably once had an awkward moment, just to see what it felt like right?
Fahk you…
To all the doubters out there that question my truthfulness:
1 – eat a giant bowl of dick
2 – I am fully aware that I am lucky to be married with three kids yet still get sex on the reg. The last time most of my friends banged their wife there was only one Law and Order on TV.
3 – if you have any type of reading comprehension skills, you’ll notice that I am asking for advice on how to last longer during intercourse due to years of self-inflicted cock abuse – not complaining about how frequently my wife puts out
Finally, non-emo titans fan – go throat an ice pick. You’re a terrible wingman and worse friend.
\winks back
Addition to Nephew of Tommy,
I missed the part where you are 19. Engaged for three years when you’re 19? That’s fucking insane. Call of the engagement and tell her you want to go back to screwing around like mad. She won’t want to and will dump you, but hey, you’ll be free to fuck whomever you want again.
“My first trip to the strip clubs was in 1980.”
Somebody get this man a Dos Equis – pronto – and let’s all pull up some chairs.
what the fuck is wrong with me?
One night stand dude,
You’re writing the KSK mailbag. I’d say you’re not the healthiest individual, mentally, in the world, right? ;)
Kidding aside, some guys need to feel an attachment before they can fuck. So a one night stand doesn’t work for you because you don’t care about the girl. I’m not sure that that means there’s anything WRONG with you, but it is slightly different from the average of the male species who will gladly hump the backyard fence if the hole looks enticing enough.
Look on it as being very sophisticated, and make sure to tell any potential girl that you’re not really the “one night stand type.” Chicks love that shit, trust me.
Nephew of Tommy,
Your fiancee is hot and freaking awesome in the sack. What exactly else are you looking for? She’s made it pretty damn clear that now that you’ve asked her to marry you (WE’VE BEEN TELLING YOU STUPID FUCKERS THAT THAT **ENDS** ALL FUN EVERY SINGLE FUCKING INSTANCE OF THIS MAILBAG. DO YOU FUCKS NEVER LISTEN?!) she expects you to be monogamous.
You either agree to her demands and continue to have fantastic sex with her (hell, tell her that now you can’t see anyone else, you want DOUBLE the sex and let her ride you five times a day), or you can break up with her and see if you can find some girl somewhere that will have fantastic sex with you AND will happily let you fuck other people too. *snickers*
Or you can be a giant asshole and cheat on her. In which case we’ll all think you’re a fahkin cawktastah!
Crazy sex-wife-who-got-pregnant-twice-guy,
Welcome to real married life. You just started eight years later than most of us.
Short Fuse,
You bang your wife twice a week (decent, in married circles.)
You’re a horndog, so you jerk off frequently.
And yet you STILL can’t last? Something doesn’t add up somewhere. Most guys who jerk off frequently take forever to cum because THEIR COCKS GET RUBBED RAW WHILE JERKING OFF.
*looks around*
What?
In any case, if you’re that concerned about lasting longer, jerk off right before you have sex, then bone her. If you still can’t last, go see a doctor because your nerves must be on ecstasy or something.
Nephew – Don’t marry her then. Don’t follow in the mistakes of those that went before you. If you still have oats to sow then you are not ready to settle down and marry her. Even if settling down means wild sex with others with her consent. She needs to be on board with your open relationship or if she isn’t, there is nothing but trouble down the road.
And you are too young to be getting married. I was too young at 30 and now fucked….